do people go back to their ex’s? i really don’t understand, especially if its an ex thats done more bad than good. i mean don’t get me wrong, the idea crossed my mind when me and my ex ended but that was right after the break up, not a year or more later. if you’ve grown as a person and finally moved past the pain, even just an inch, why would you go back to someone who’s going to resurface those emotions. This whole idea of being friends with your ex is bullshit, you can be cordial yes but having conversations with them on the daily? yea no you’re just setting yourself up for disaster. Why would anyone wanna go back to someone who’s done them so wrong, especially if they’ve already been in a relationship with someone else. I understand people change and they do grow but whats done is done, the past should be left there, in the past. If they did you wrong and couldn’t change while they were with you then they obviously didn’t see your worth. Its just so ridiculous that people hold onto this hope of getting back with their ex, that they’ll come back and want you. Most of the time they come back cuz they’re lonely, they’re rebounding, or just scared of the unfamiliar so they need to go somewhere where they’ve had comfort before, which would be you & they know that you’ll be there. why would you ever give someone the chance to be with you again when they never valued you to begin with?